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Why the feedback sandwich falls apart (and what to do instead)

Stop using the sh*t sandwich approach. It doesn’t work. Instead, try “stretching the bread”. Here’s what I mean. 

We've all heard of the “sandwich method” in giving feedback: start with a compliment, slide in the criticism, and close with another compliment. On the surface, it sounds like a kind, strategic way to soften the blow. But here’s the thing—it doesn’t work.

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Leadership, Relationships, Self-development Kausern Hieu Leadership, Relationships, Self-development Kausern Hieu

Before feedback: The real root of workplace conflict

Why do we clash with others, even when our intentions seem good? We often enter into conversations wanting to help or improve something, but we end up in disagreement.

I recently ran a workshop on giving difficult feedback at work. But something struck me after the session: “Before we even get to feedback, we need to understand where the misalignment came from.”

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Easy first or hard first? Here’s a smarter way to decide where to start to tackle your task.

Easy first or hard first? Here’s a smarter way to decide where to start to tackle your task. 

One common approach in the productivity circle is to start doing easy tasks first to build momentum and confidence. On the other hand, there's the "Eat That Frog" school of thought popularized by Brian Tracy: do the most difficult, important task first to create a domino effect for the rest of your day.

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